Romance Relationship

Rule #2:

Know your Instant Messenger Service (IM). Did you know that some versions of IM's will expose your Internet Protocol (IP) Address? These 10 to 12 digit numbers will reveal who your ISP is and what your location is. With *dial-up* Internet access, this is not too much of a threat, as you receive a different IP address every time you dial into the Internet. But with high speed access being more available, if you have this type of access you always have the same IP address. With just a couple of clicks and the right program, someone can find out your home address in under 15 seconds! Read the privacy information available on any IM service you are using and understand how to protect your IP address, your private email address and any other information that may be displayed to someone sending you a message. Never send or reply to a message from someone you don't know!

It doesn’t matter how you got to be single in your mid-thirties. What does matter, however, is that you have certain priorities in order so that you can protect yourself and those you date from getting hurt. There are too many reasons to list on why you’re on the market at this stage in your life, but you should be clear on your goals, both long and short-term. You don’t want to be led on or trapped into something you didn’t want in the first place.

Rule Nine:

Do not lie to me. I may appear to be a potbellied, balding, middle-aged, dimwitted has-been. But on issues relating to my daughter, I am the all-knowing, merciless God of your universe. If I ask you where you are going and with whom, you have one chance to tell me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I have a shotgun, a shovel, and five acres behind the house. Do not trifle with me.

Rule Ten:

Be afraid. Be very afraid. It takes very little for me to mistake the sound of your car in the driveway for a chopper coming in over a rice paddy near Hanoi. When my Agent Orange starts acting up, the voices in my head frequently tell me to clean the guns as I wait for you to bring my daughter home. As soon as you pull into the driveway you should exit your car with both hands in plain sight. dating the perimeter password, announce in a clear voice that you have brought my daughter home safely and early, then return to your car -- there is no need for you to come inside. The camouflaged face at the window is mine.
Women know this. They are keenly perceptive to other people's emotional states, and if you're nervous, it will show. In the back of her head, she'll interpret this nervousness to mean that you are NOT confident. Nervousness also equals FEAR.

She doesn't respect FEAR. Because FEAR means that you are not equipped to protect her.

She may WANT to pretend your nervousness and fear are something else, and she might want to accept you in spite of it, but her inner thought process (the one she cannot control) will undermine your image to her and she will not be attracted to you.

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3: NO SELF-THERAPY ONLINE

Your profile shouldn’t be a self-therapy session, where you explain all the hurt you’ve gone through and how badly you are looking for Ms. Right. That doesn’t turn women on. It might make them feel SORRY for you, but it won’t turn them ON.

Women want WINNERS. So if you feel that your life sucks, and that it’s been a real bummer so far, keep it to yourself- that way it can get better, especially at night!

This brings me to the FLIP-SIDE of this point: